A new school year means plenty of new faces at CHS – people with unknown backgrounds, just waiting to find friendships. Some might be social butterflies who talk right away and make friends quickly, but others might be more introverted and shy. They might have more trouble with talking to new people. Being in a new school is a huge change, so it is completely understandable to feel a bit of uneasiness, especially in an atmosphere as big as CHS with a whopping 1,205 students. You can almost guess the thoughts: Will I make friends? What will the school year be like? Will I like my classes? How will I adjust to this new environment? If you’ve been here a while, you can help ease some of these worries by trying to connect with these new faces. There are lots of ways to help a new arriving student get more comfortable.
If you come across someone who is alone, consider striking up a conversation with them. First, introduce yourself and let them know who you are. Then get to know the person. Everyone has a personal story that’s underneath. Some good questions are: What school did you originally go to? What hobbies do you enjoy? Who is your favorite song writer? Do you have any siblings? Maybe you have things in common. Having common interests is a great thing to bond over and talk about (that’s a great start already)!
Over time, a new friendship might form. This person might end up being your best friend, or they might simply become a friendly face you see in the hallway. Either way, you are helping the new student feel less alone by being someone they can talk to. Making new students feel welcome benefits them and you by expanding both of your social connections. Connecting with others helps people feel happier and supported, but for someone who is more shy, making that connection can be difficult. By reaching out and making someone feel included, you can make a real difference in their experience at a new school.
Now for the most important part: we don’t know what someone else may be going through. People face all different types of situations, and some may be more difficult than others. For a new student, adjusting to a new school can already feel overwhelming, especially if they are facing other challenges at the same time. That’s why it’s so important to include others by talking to them or inviting them to join you. A small act of kindness can make someone feel seen and supported, like they belong at CHS.
As a new student myself, I can personally relate to this situation because I was at a private school during middle school. I came here wanting to meet new people and overcome my own shyness. I am learning who I can be my most authentic self around and rely on for support. I think everyone at CHS deserves that type of connection, especially those just starting out. Sometimes all it takes is one person reaching out to create a lasting friendship. Today’s stranger could be tomorrow’s best friend.
